The Hero Gene
0I took the kids to the park the other day. Kamran immediately made friends with a little girl and we all ended up playing golf and batting together.
As they were leaving her mom went to get the car, leaving dad in charge of the girl. A minute later the girl ran after the mom, almost running into the street. The dad, clearly upset, ran, picked her up, and held her. It was a bit of a scene, with the girl kicking and crying as her dad scolded her.
Kamran and I were still batting, but Kamran couldn’t concentrate. His eyes were locked on the girl and the dad. A minute into it he just couldn’t take it anymore; he dropped the bat and ran all the way across the field to confront the dad.
Kamran is not quite 4 years old yet. The dad was a 6 foot 2 gruff looking marine type.
It really gave me pause. In a 4 year old’s mind, this was an emergency – a little girl being threatened by a large grizzly guy. Many people – myself included – would’ve probably stood and watched in such a situation. Kamran ran to the girl’s help. It wasn’t so much that he was being brave or being hero – you could just see that he couldn’t stand it. It was as if he was physically in pain watching this.
Of course there was no real emergency; the dad was a nice enough guy just trying to protect his daughter from running into the street. They got in the car and left. But it left me wondering. More and more I’m convinced the vast majority of who we are and what we do is genetically wired into us, as opposed to learned behavior…
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